The silent struggle: A Qualitative study on the lives of Single Fathers

Abstract

This study investigates the lived experiences of single fathers in Islamabad, Pakistan, with a focus on their struggles, coping mechanisms, and the complex realities of parenting in a traditionally patriarchal society. Using a qualitative research design, the study adopts an interpretivist paradigm to explore the subjective realities of single fathers, shaped by cultural, social, and economic factors. Data were collected through in-depth, semi-structured interviews with 14 single fathers, selectedthrough snow ballsampling until data saturation was reached. Thematic analysis was employed to identify key patterns and insights within the narratives.The study also shedding light the difficulties single fathers encounter when they go from two-parent to single-parent households because of cultural norms based on traditional gender roles. The findings reveal themes such as emotional isolation, career and financial adjustments, societal stigma, and the redefinition of paternal roles. Despite their challenges, participants demonstrated resilience and a strong commitment to nurturing their children.This study contributes to the limited body of knowledge on fatherhood in South Asian contexts and challenges dominant gender norms by giving voice to a marginalized parental identity. The research highlights the need for inclusive social policies and support systems that recognize and empower single fathers